Respect

PLEASE LISTEN 

 
When I ask you to listen to me
And you start giving me advice,
You have not done what I asked 

And when I ask you to listen to me 
And you begin to tell me why  
I shouldn't feel that way,
You are trampling on my feelings.


When I asked you to listen to me 
And you feel you have to do something
to solve my problem,
You have failed me,Strange as that may seem.

Listen! All I ask is that you listen,
Dont talk or do - just hear me  



Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Convey
via: Sec 2 RICH file 
   

Christmas Eve / Christmas Day

Hey guys  메리크리스마스!
how was your Christmas Eve/Christmas Day? Mind was quite awesome since i went for 2 rounds of caroling :P
First round was to the old folks home :) Heres some pictures :





ok so apparently theres only 1 picture that i took  :p 

so for round 2 of caroling we went to 6 houses to sing :) it was an enjoyable time :)
so heres some pictures too !

With my family before leaving our house :) Thank Kyu Aunty Susan for helping us take this picture


In the bus with XinYun,Joy,SiMin and Genevieve ( all of them are my 언니)
 
With XinYun 언니 :)

With SiYing :):):)

so thats all ^^
to end this post
Merry Christmas to everyone out there! May God bless you
메리 크리스마스
 

SHINee - Last Chrismas / with lyrics on screen

메리 크리스마스 once again~~~

Super Junior - Santa, You're The One / with lyrics on screen

메리 크리스마스 EVERYONEEE~~~

christmas session

After going for the Running Man game that has been mention in the previous post ... I today went to their church to have some Christmas session ;) it was AWESOMEEEEE




It was a great experience :) and im happy that i could meet the super friendly 오빠 & 언니 ㅋㅋㅋ
took picture with Zoe,ShaSha,cyndi,SiChen 언니 and Clarissa 언니 :)

pls: Zoe,ShaSha,Cyndi and me were all invited by Mao Cheng (yup his the guy that invited me for the Running Man on Thur) 



After that we went to have lunch since we were all starving ㅠㅠ
so after lunch we went to the mrt station around there to have more group time and we also took pictures as a whole BIG Group :) all the 오빠, 언니 & 동생 ㅋㅋㅋ


The Next picture is the people from NBSS all the  오빠&동생 theres no 언니 ㅠㅠ( the picture above all the people come from 3 different schools ^^)


really had a great time with all of the 오빠, 언니 & 동생 on Thur and today ;,)
all these are gonna be in my memories #^^# 

Running Man

First time in my life going out with some friends that i dont know from the start but thx to my classmate persistent of persuading me, i went to this Running Man game that his church group has organized :)

Really thank God that he persisted and i decided to go on Thur :P didnt regret as i had fun even though it was tiring ... and another thing to thank for is that God actually hold the rain when we were all havin fun! as you know, in Singapore during the afternoon it will always rain but it didnt rain ! it was only drizzling for while and that is ok as we can still continue our game :)

Lucky the chasers won ( im in the chasing grp) so i didnt need to do forfeit :P

heres a picture :
its just legs XDDD

CARE

Caring for others is what makes us more human.
We can make a choice to care for others. When we care for the people around us and make those we don not know, we enrich our life by making it more meaningful.

 

Friends are  important to us because they provide us with strong relationships. Just as we need our friends to be there for us, we must make the effort to be there for them in times of needs and joy.


  

In the community, we can make a difference to the live of others, including the less privileged. In the neighborhood, for example, people recognize and acknowledge each other, interact and communicate, take part in activities organized for and by the residents of the neighborhood, and show care and concern for one another.


all that is written above is taken from my sec 2 RICH file ^^ just wanna share since I find it meaningful :)
    

Portrait Of A Friend

I cant give solution to all your life's problems, doubts, or fear
But I can listen to you, and together we will search for answers

I cant change your past with all its heartache and pain, nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I cant keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,
and help you when you ask.

I cant prevent you from falling away from friendship from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I cant give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow, room to yourself.

I cant keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces and put them back in place.

I cant tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend.


        -Author Unknown-

source: http://www.indianchild.com
 
I read this from sec 2 RICH file so yeaa ^^

 

If you have a friend as mentioned above you should treasure that person and not take that person for granted :)  
If you dont have a friend like that now im sure you will have one in the future and dont take that friend for granted too !

With 쉐릴

Met Cheryl at 1130am at yishun MRT than went to khartib to have Korean food for lunch ! WOHOOOO~~~~

After lunch came back home and watch TeukSora ^_____^ *missing teukie* ㅠㅠ
And we didn't forget to camwhore :P gonna upload pictures at the end of the post but not all :P

After that went to play badminton :) we were planning to play for 2hrs but who knows ? Her appa called her after we played for around 20 mins ㅠㅠ

Anyway had a greaaaat time laughing together ^^

Birthday boys

Before I really forget
I wanna wish SHINee dubu onew happy birthdaaaaaay~~~~~~~ his birthday was yesterday but I didn't manage to blog so yea~~ now I'm wishing him a belated birthday :/ hope he had a great time yesterday !

Next I wanna wish JYJ/DBSK/TVXQ (yes I'm still kepping the faith ... Waiting for them to be ONE again) Junsu happy birthdaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!! Hope he had a great time today ^________^

Anyway I wish the two Oppars all the best in the future and I'm always supporting them ! Hwaiting ~~ 오빠 사랑해~~~파이팅!