Negative and positive thoughts

How do you feel when people talk bad about you ? You do not feel good am I right ?
We don't even feel good when there is people talking bad about someone we cherish or like ...
I know it's hard but we should try not to talk back about people :) Try to looks at their positive side, do not look at their negative side ! I agree that it's hard to do it. But as long as you are willing to try, you can do it ! Now I am learning how to keep looking at people's positive side :) we all can do it !